Music has the ability to do many things. From bringing back a wide variety of memories to inspiring us, to pushing us to finish that one last mile when we’re dead tired. So, it makes total sense that music can make getting busy even better… as long as you choose the right songs. I’ve done the research and know what tunes you should turn on in the bedroom. This is what you need to know and why you might want to incorporate songs and music if you’re not already doing so. Now, I get that some people just want to hook up and call it a day and I respect that. However, music really does make life ten times more enjoyable, before, during, and after sex.
Music In Bed: Ten Best Songs for Getting Busy
Obviously, everyone is going to have their own taste in music, from oldies to the newest pop to country to rap. But, if you’re looking to add some new music to your “getting busy” playlist, this list might just be what you’re looking for.
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“Rocket” Beyoncé
Queen Bey can honestly get anyone in the mood at any time and her song “Rocket” is one of my top picks for a sex song.
Released in 2013, “Rocket” is exactly what you’re thinking it’s about (if you don’t know what “Rocket” is a euphemism for, you might not be ready for sex just yet) and is great if you’re having that slow kind of rhythmic sex.
If “Rocket” isn’t your jam, though, the entire “Beyoncé” album is a dive into sexiness, from “Blow” to “Partition” to “Yonce”. Put this album on and your lady is going to be raring to go.
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“The Valley” Miguel
I love Miguel. His music can just get anyone in the mood and he actually has two entries on this list for best songs for getting busy. The first is “The Valley”. Once again, if you don’t know what he’s talking about, I legit question your suitability to be having sex. “The Valley” has very strong sexual lyrics and I guarantee your lady-friend is going to want to act just like she’s filming in the valley and who doesn’t want their very own porn star?
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“Adorn” Miguel
Miguel is totally on my sex playlist because of songs like “The Valley” and “Adorn”. He has the smoothness of a young Marvin Gaye with the sexiness of Usher and “Adorn” gets you going with its opening line, “these lips can’t wait to taste your skin”.
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“SexyBack” Justin Timberlake
I know, “SexyBack” is probably considered an oldie, but it isn’t the oldest song on my sex song list. Just Timberlake has come a long way since his ‘Nsync days and our boy has grown up! Released in 2009, “SexyBack” became the anthem for shaking it in the club and for all the girls working the pole.
If you aren’t looking for love-making, just good old-fashioned, rough-and-tumble sex, then give “SexyBack” a chance.
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“Beautiful Dangerous” Slash featuring Fergie
There is no doubt that Slash is one of the best guitar players ever. When I heard he was going to be collaborating with Fergie, I was scratching my head. I mean, she’s a pop singer, how was that going to work? Well, friends, it definitely works on “Beautiful Dangerous”.
You might not think of rock songs, other than ballads, as something you’d want to have sex to, but once you listen to the words of “Beautiful Dangerous” and hear the sexy growl of Fergie, you’re going to quickly understand why this is a song that will get your girl going.
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“Promise” Romeo Santos featuring Usher
Latin music is seriously synonymous with sex. The smooth sounds, the sexy lyrics, and the heart-thumping beat just make being in the bedroom that much better. When you mix Romeo Santos with Usher, well you can’t lose. “Promise” is going to make you want to dance both vertically and horizontally, which is exactly what we all want, isn’t it?
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“Rocks Off” The Rolling Stones
I know you’re probably like, “Whaaa?” Well, bear with me here. Yes, The Rolling Stones are kind of old and probably not something the younger folks are going to be into, but “Rocks Off” from their dirty-ass album “Exile on Main St.”, is just damn sexy.
If you’re having dirty sex, like just being kinky and getting off in a big way, “Rocks Off” is for you. The best line says it all, “Heading for the overload/Splattered on the dirty road”.
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“Set the Mood” Justin Timberlake
Justin is not only bringing sexy back he’s also getting your girl in the mood. “Set the Mood” is about foreplay and every great lover knows that the best way to get a girl to the finish line is with a strong start.
And if you don’t know that, learn it. Quickly. If you don’t, someone else will and then you’ll be listening to sad, lonely songs all alone with your hand.
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“Ride” Ciara featuring Ludacris
If you’re looking to change things up in the bedroom and you aren’t quite sure how to suggest it, then play Ciara’s “Ride”. Not only is it sexy, but it might just inspire your girl to get a little naughty and get on top.
- “Intro” the xx
“Intro” was voted the most popular sex song on Spotify and topped a Billboard list for most popular sexy songs, so it’s not a stretch to say that this song will get things going in the bedroom for you. No matter what type of sex you’re having, “Intro” is only going to enhance that experience for you and your partner. Now, go do it!
Conclusion: Music Is Great While Hooking Up And You Should Start Doing It ASAP!
There are literally thousands of sex songs out there, so narrowing it down can be a little tough. And, if none of these songs are working for you for whatever reason, you’ll never be without options as the music industry loves to get us in the mood. Now, go download some new music and find yourself someone that inspires you!
About Owen Cashner
Owen Cashner considers himself a professional dater and amateur comedian. His passion for writing led him to document his experiences using online dating websites. All opinions expressed on this website are to further educate men on the landscape of dating. Use this information to your advantage and conquer the dating world.
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