You can consider me a lobbyist for the swingers out there. Seriously, I’m all about meeting new people and bringing more bodies into the bedroom. That’s just how I roll. Now, that being said, here’s what I’ve got to share about the best swinger apps and sites that exist today…
The 12 Best Apps for Swingers, Threesomes, and Singles Looking for Sex
Experimentation in the bedroom can be fun and can spice up a sexual relationship that has gone a little stale. While swinging and threesomes have traditionally been taboo, a sort of sexual revolution has changed all that. No longer are these things just something kinky people take part in, but instead, they are ways to try something new.
When you’re looking for swinging and threesomes, though, it can get a little difficult finding partner’s who are down for it. I mean, do you just ask a friend if they want to get freaky? And do you want to watch your buddy banging your girlfriend?
The answer to that is probably a huge NO.
If you’re looking to find a partner or partners for swinging and threesomes, or you’re looking to be a third for a couple, there are excellent apps available that will help your sexy dreams come true.
When you’re feeling like you need a little something extra, consider giving these 10 best apps for swingers, threesomes, and singles looking for sex a try.
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AdultFriendFinder
If you’re looking to just jump into the pool of swingers and threesomes, you’re going to want to check out AdultFriendFinder. AdultFriendFinder is one of the world’s largest swinger and threesome platforms on the internet and if you are serious about finding someone to experiment with, you’re going to want to check it out.
Joining is quick, easy, and free and only requires you to answer a few questions about yourself and what you’re looking for. AdultFriendFinder is available on your computer and your smartphone, so it’s easily accessible. And, if you’re looking for something more cyber in nature, AdultFriendFinder also has nude cam chat shows and live chats if you just want someone to play around with online.
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SDC
SDC, also known as Seek, Discover, Create, is another swingers site that seeks to hookup open-minded kinky people no matter where you are located. SDC allows you to see who locally is interested in getting together by using a GPS system, which means no matter where you are, you can find someone looking for a good time.
Joining and using SDC is pretty easy and if you like to get to know someone before you commit to getting naked with them, you can use their live chat feature. If you’re intrigued, I definitely recommend setting up a profile on SDC and seeing where it takes you.
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Instabang
If you’re into banging people daily and meeting them via a hookup app, then this is the way to go. Instabang delivers better than most and the users here are super horny as well as inviting. In my opinion, there’s nothing more comforting than knowing you can count on people that want to bang and top tier customer service. See more here before diving into things.
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Feel’d
Feeld is a dating app for singles and those in relationships who are looking to find an alternative sexual encounter. What is awesome about this app is that you can create a profile for you and your partner and link them so others can tell you’re a couple and can both search for another partner using different devices together.
Feeld allows you to stay anonymous if you’re kind of a shy sexual violet, but once you’ve been on the app and have seen how open and welcoming the site is, you’re not going to want to hide for a long time.
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Lucky
Lucky was designed for users who like to hookup locally and have sexual chats anonymously. Lucky is very much like Tinder in that you swipe right or left on the pictures of other users based on what you like. Lucky doesn’t require a face picture, any links to social media, or your phone number or email address, so you’re going to be able to have connections without worrying about others knowing what you’re up to.
Lucky is available on both Android and iOS, so no matter what you’re using, you’re going to be able to find a swinging couple or a threesome quickly, easily, and once you mark your location, locally.
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Mixxxer
Mixxxer is a site for couples and singles, everyone is welcome. And, if you’re into a bi or gay lifestyle, you’re welcome there too.
Joining is easy, just enter some basic information about yourself and within minutes you’re going to be able to search for others who are looking for some sexy times.
It is important to know that the people of Mixxxer are not about keeping things PG, so be prepared for some sexy pictures. It isn’t a requirement to upload sexual pictures of yourself, but because of the nature of the site, it will probably help your cause.
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Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger Lifestyle is the world’s largest swinger community and the site is more than just a dating site. Swinger Lifestyle not only offers you the ability to find a date, but it also offers you a way to find swingers clubs, swinger related forums, and a way to explore your sexuality.
If you’re just beginning to look at what the swinger lifestyle is and can be, or you’re more experienced and looking to expand your community, Swinger Lifestyle is a great choice.
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3Somer
3Somer is another Tinder-like dating site that focuses on threesomes, swinging, and singles who are looking to get with other polyamorous folks. 3Somer uses your location to find locals, so you’re guaranteed to find the perfect partners locally instead of having to travel too far.
This app is available on both iOS and Android, so no matter what type of phone you’re using, you’re going to be able to use the app. So, if you’re open-minded and looking for a group sex kind of thing, whether you have a current partner or not, give it a try.
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Poly Match Maker
If you’re the type of person that believes in poly love, Poly Match Maker is one of the best sites for you. Whether it’s polyamory, polygamy, open relationships, threesomes, or swinging, Poly Match Maker has you covered.
Poly Match Maker has over 73,000 members and these members are into a variety of sexual relationships. If you’re considering giving them a try, you will want to create a profile and take some time to fill it out so that your potential matches understand who you are and what you’re looking for, so take that time to think about who you are and what you want.
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Open Minded
Open Minded is for those who are, well, open minded! The primary goal of Open Minded is to keep things light and fun in the bedroom and to help those who are looking for something different connect with others like them.
No matter what type of relationship you’re looking for, Open Minded has it and will help you to find a match that works for you.
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3Fun
3Fun is a site for threesomes, swinging, and even BDSM, if you’re into that sort of thing.
The most awesome thing about 3Fun is that they care about their users and make sure that everything that goes on is safe. When you upload any pictures, the brains behind 3Fun verify that you are who say you are, which means the chances of getting scammed are pretty slim. If you ask me, that is a great feature and ensures that you can spend your time having fun and not worrying about creeps making your life difficult.
Another great safety feature allows you to hide your profile and only share it with people you are friends with and only they can see your private pictures. If you want security while using a sex site, you can’t do any better with 3Fun.
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Snapsext
Last but not least, the Snapsext.com app will help you connect with Snapchat girls who are into threesomes and the swinger lifestyle. There’s a ton of swinging members that meet up with others nearby for sex. It’s free to register too = no brainer!
Final Thoughts
Thanks to the internet, finding alternative sex partners is easier than it ever was before. These 10 apps for swingers, threesomes, and sexual singles are a great way to not only find like-minded, sexual explorers, but more importantly, help you find actual partners willing to take things to the next level.
If you want a way to try new things or spice things up, try one of these apps and see what happens. You really have nothing to lose and if anything, you might even discover things you’ve never dreamed were possible.
Give it a go and have yourself a very good time!
About Owen Cashner
Owen Cashner considers himself a professional dater and amateur comedian. His passion for writing led him to document his experiences using online dating websites. All opinions expressed on this website are to further educate men on the landscape of dating. Use this information to your advantage and conquer the dating world.
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