Have you ever considered having sex in public? Maybe not in front of people in a park, but like in a movie theater or restroom or your car?
Are you blushing?
Or, is the thought of getting down and dirty in a public place kind of titillating?
Public sex is a totally different beast than bedroom sex. You’re suddenly completely vulnerable, doing something that is most likely illegal, and you’re just being…bad. And if you’ve ever had sexual tension with someone that just won’t let you get home to take care of business, it can be amazingly thrilling.
If you’re considering giving public sex a-go, read on to find out the “why’s” and “how’s” to see if it is really something for you and something you may be able to pull off without too much hassle.
Why Do People Like Public Sex?
People love sex. It’s really one of the best things about living, isn’t it? But, why do people like having sex in public? I mean, it is kinda illegal and *gasp* other people might see you and all your goods. Granted, some people are totally into that kind of thing, but why would the average “Joe-of-the-vanilla-sex-kind” want to engage in something so risky?
Well, you just answered your own question, my friend.
The average person might want to give public sex a try because it’s risky. It gets your adrenaline pumping, releases feel-good hormones, and is just a complete turn on because you’re misbehaving and (hopefully) getting away with it. It’s sort of the same science as to why people jump out of airplanes for fun and ride rollercoasters.
People like to feel alive and doing something mildly dangerous gives us that feeling.
Public sex can also help relationships that have gone a bit stagnant and boring. Sex with the same partner becomes almost routine and nobody likes routine. A forbidden tryst in a place you really shouldn’t be doing it is a great way to spice things up a bit and add in that excitement that you’ve been craving. Which by the way you’ll find here too.
And, even if you get caught, you will have a totally amazing story to tell all your buddies, who will certainly enjoy hearing about you with a hottie that couldn’t keep her hands to herself. Hopefully, the story doesn’t end with the both of you being arrested!
How To Have Public Sex
I’m not going to give you the speech your parents should have given you a decade or two ago and if you’re thinking of having public sex, you probably already know how “it” works anyway.
What I am going to give you is some tips on how to do it in public and make it easier, so you don’t get caught.
First, make sure whoever you’re planning on banging knows you’re considering doing it in public. Don’t bully anyone into something they’re not comfortable with, there are just going to be those people who don’t want to have sex and public and you need to respect that.
If you suggest it and they don’t freak out on you, though, keep these things in mind as well:
Don’t do it in front of people: Come on, do I need to say this? Sex in complete public is going to get you arrested for sure and if there are kids around, the charges will be even worse. Public sex should be kept to a mostly private place, like a bathroom, a car, or a movie theater where nobody is paying any attention to you.
Try a new position: Obviously, nobody is going to be laying down completely for public sex. You just can’t. If you are in a bathroom, consider using the toilet to sit on as she sits on you, either facing you or facing away or putting her on the sink and getting it done that way.
Lock the door: If you’re in a bathroom or other public place and the door can lock, lock it. I know you crave excitement but letting someone walk in when you don’t need them to is really risky. Use stalls, door locks, and even use your hand to hold a door closed until you are finished.
Don’t get completely naked: This is another common-sense thing to keep in mind. You just do not have the time to get completely naked for public sex. If you’re a guy, just unzip your fly. If you’re a woman and you want intercourse, either don’t wear panties or wear a skirt for easier access.
Be quiet: You cannot have raucous sex in public. I don’t care how damn good it feels, you’re going to have to tap into your teenage memories of wanking it while mom was in the next room and be quiet. And, if your girl is a screamer, you either have to warn her to be quiet or you’re going to have to get a little BDSM on her and cover her mouth.
Enter and exit the public place separately: If you’re having a romantic encounter in a bathroom, for example, don’t go in or come out together. One person should wait for the other, you should get busy, and then you both get yourselves put back together and leave separately.
Have a story ready: I was out with my girlfriend once, doing a little Sunday grocery shopping and she was just feeling amazingly horny. We decided to use the family bathroom at a local store, but one of the staff members knew what was happening and called the police. When they showed up, my girl and I, who had time to finish, had a story ready which got us off the hook. Basically, if you think you might get caught, say you got sick and make sure you act like it. Nobody really wants to question diarrhea and vomiting.
Conclusion
Public sex isn’t going to be for everyone, and that’s ok. It is a risky thing to engage in and you never know what can happen. Though, that is really what makes it exciting and dangerous.
If you decide that you just have to give public sex a chance, keep a few things in mind and it should go well for you.
First, get consent from your partner. Don’t push someone into something they’re not into or ready for. Then, make sure you’re doing it in a semi-shielded-from-the-public place, do, it quickly, and make sure you stay quiet.
If you can keep all these things in mind, you’re sure to enjoy your hookup fun and avoid any jail time or appearances in court.
About Owen Cashner
Owen Cashner considers himself a professional dater and amateur comedian. His passion for writing led him to document his experiences using online dating websites. All opinions expressed on this website are to further educate men on the landscape of dating. Use this information to your advantage and conquer the dating world.
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