There is nothing more frustrating than finally getting a date with a sexy, over-the-top hottie that you just can’t wait to bang, and your gun shoots too early. You know what I mean, guys. You’re a two-pump chump, or as people who aren’t mentally 12 years old call it, you suffer from premature ejaculation.
I know that many of the readers here at Hookup Website have questions and concerns about this topic, which is exactly why I’ve covered it below.
It’s hella embarrassing and even if the woman you’re with says she doesn’t care, you know she’s going to be telling all her besties how you couldn’t keep things going in the bedroom. Or, maybe you don’t have premature ejaculation, but you just want to keep the satisfaction going for everyone involved. Either way, there are definite steps you can take to ensure that you last longer in bed and impress that hot girl.
Real (Proven) Tips For Lasting Longer In The Bedroom
Here’s what you need to know if you’re looking to last longer and make strides in the sack with someone. Remember, no one likes a
Before Anything Else, Get a Checkup
First and foremost, if you’re suffering from any sexual dysfunction or have a question about the ol’ boys, you need to get yourself to a doctor. I know it’s embarrassing, but it doesn’t need to be. You aren’t the first person to present with these issues and they are there to help you.
A visit to the urologist will entail giving them a brief history (be ready to answer some uncomfortable questions), and probably some bloodwork to test your thyroid and testosterone levels. They can then determine if you’ve got lifelong premature ejaculation (P.E.) or if it is acquired.
Acquired premature ejaculation is most likely triggered by something, whether it be stress, unhealthy lifestyle, or lack of sleep. This type of P.E. can usually be treated without medications once you tweak what’s bothering you.
Whether you have P.E. or not, you probably want to know how you can last longer in bed and there are some tried and true tricks that can help any amorous man.
Techniques to Last Longer in Bed
Not every tip is going to work for everyone, but before you go buying strange “cures” online, give one of these four techniques a try. They might just be the key to you lasting longer in bed and both you and your partner being satisfied.
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Squeeze your little buddy (not too much though)
Yes, I know the words “squeeze” and “your little buddy” shouldn’t ever be in the same sentence. But hear me out.
When you are about to ejaculate, pull out and put pressure on the base of your penile head with your thumb on top and your fingers underneath. This can help decrease the sensations that are getting you all riled up.
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The old “Start-and-Stop”
The Start-and-Stop is similar to putting pressure on your unit, but instead, you just pull out, take a deep breath to calm yourself, and then continue. It may help if you stop and do something else, maybe give your hottie a little tongue action or slip her two fingers to tease her.
It is important to make sure your gal-pal is in on this little secret. It might be uncomfortable to spill the beans about how you spill your spunk too quickly, but with both techniques it is going to take a lot of concentration on your part and you don’t want her thinking you’d rather be somewhere else than with her.
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Go all Sting in the bedroom
Ever heard of tantric sex? Yes, it’s the sex Sting has, and the guy knows what he’s doing. Or so I’ve heard, I’ve never actually gotten busy with Sting, thank the gods.
But seriously guys, tantric sex involves working on relaxation techniques, breath control, and focusing on being consciously present in the act of sex. This isn’t mumbo-jumbo, witchdoctor nonsense. If you can work on your mindfulness involving sex, you’re going to go a long way with impressing any woman you bring into your bedroom.
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Try new positions
If you’re always doing the same positions, say Missionary, you should really consider switching things up and trying new sex positions. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy, I’m looking at you Piledriver, but positions, where the woman is on top, are known to prolong the fun because they limit muscle tension.
The best kinds of sex positions to try when you are dealing with P.E. include:
- Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl
- Yab Yum-This is where you and your partner face each other and she embraces your waist with her legs
- Side-to-side/spooning positions
- Doggy Style
No matter what position you go with, keep deep breathing to ensure you’ve got blood flow and oxygen going exactly where you want it to go. Hint: You want it all going down to your crotch.
Bonus Tips
If these techniques don’t work for you, there are some other quick tips you can try to see if they help. These bonus tips include:
- Wear a condom – Not only does it dull the sensation that makes you want to ejaculate, but it also protects you from all the nasties nobody wants to get, including STI’s and babies.
- Ejaculate before sex – Seems a little counterintuitive, but if you ejaculate before you get busy, you will have less semen at the ready, causing you to last a bit longer a second time.
- Depression meds – Most people get off of depression medications because it can cause them to have trouble orgasming. In a guy with P.E., this is exactly what you’d want since you’re an early shooter. Plus, you would get the added benefit of being a little happier and less anxious, so kind of a win-win.
These types of medications will have other side effects as well, so all the positives and negatives should be considered when you’re looking at depression medications as a way to help P.E.
- Sex coaches or sex therapists – These people specialize in sexual dysfunctions of all types and can really help you overcome whatever is causing your P.E. This can be a good bit of work on your part, but they know what they’re talking about and have seen and treated everything bedroom related.
Premature ejaculation sucks. But, it is important to remember that you’re not the only guy who has gone through it and it can be fixed with a little work. If you suffer from P.E., or you just want to prolong your sexual experiences, give these tips and techniques a try, you might just be surprised at what they can do to improve your sex life.
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I’ll wrap things up with the old jizz in my pants video because it kicks ass.
About Owen Cashner
Owen Cashner considers himself a professional dater and amateur comedian. His passion for writing led him to document his experiences using online dating websites. All opinions expressed on this website are to further educate men on the landscape of dating. Use this information to your advantage and conquer the dating world.
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