Your First-Time Sex Hookup

If you’ve never had a hookup before, you’re really missing out. There is nothing quite like finding a woman who is just totally into you and wants nothing but what you can give her in the bedroom. The problem is if you’ve never had that before, how do you find a woman for your first hookup?

The answer to that is an easy one, you get your horny behind on the internet and find a casual dating site. There are literally hundreds of them, and each has its own positives and negatives. You just need to play around a bit on a few you like, maybe pay for a trial option, and see what you find. This won’t be the only thing you have to do, though, there are other things you have to do when you are searching out the perfect partner for your first hookup.

If you’re a newbie to the whole online dating thing, or you’re just not sure how to get yourself someone that is ok with just having a hookup, I’ll let you in on some secrets that the best hookup kings already know about and before you know it, you’re going to be a pro too.

Simple Tips for Finding Your First-Time Sex Partner

Finding someone for a hookup is not an exact science. Some of the things that work one day with one woman may not work the next day with a different woman, so one of the first things you need to remember is to be flexible. Don’t rely too much on one “game” so-to-speak, but tailor your approach to each individual person you’re looking to hook up with.

If you’ve been trying to find your first hookup and it isn’t going well, my next bit of advice is to be patient. Rome wasn’t built in a day and sometimes finding perfection may take a little bit of extra time. But trust me, there will be a day that you finally get that hottie who can’t wait to get in your pants.

Here are a few more tips that will help you in your search for a hookup:

• Pick the right hookup site – There are literally hundreds, if not thousands, of hookup sites on the web. It can get overwhelming and unfortunately, there are a lot of fake sites out there. I would seriously recommend that you look up what the best hookup sites are and narrow down the field to what interests you.

Are you into a specific kink? Do you have a type of partner you’re really into, like a dominant woman, a curvier one, or maybe you have an interest in older women? Do you want to try being the third in a swinger’s couple? Seriously, there is something for everyone out there, just figure out what works for you and you’ve got a good start.

• Expand your options – Look, I would love to bang only women who are a solid “10”, but I know that isn’t going to always happen. I’m not saying you need to go for the ladies who couldn’t get dick in a dildo factory, but if a woman is pretty awesome and interested in you and she’s got a few extra pounds or is a little older than you’d like, give her some consideration anyway. Chances are, you’re not a solid “10” yourself and probably far from perfect, so opening up what you’re looking for to be more inclusive can go a long way to getting you your first hookup.
• Be honest about what you want – Do not go onto a legit, mainstream dating site and pretend you want a relationship when all you want is to get laid. I’m telling you this is a sure-fire way to piss off someone and create a headache for yourself. Plus, that makes you a dick.

If you’re on a site and only want to have hookups, NSA relationships or just threesomes, make sure you’re honest about it from the beginning. If you are honest from the get-go, you’re going to have more success.

• Be open – This goes hand-in-hand with expanding your options. If someone contacts you that you wouldn’t normally consider, maybe give her a chance. Just talk to her a bit, see what she’s about, and you never know, there may be something there that just wins you over and more importantly, gets you a hookup.
• Keep searching – It’s so easy to get frustrated when you’re searching for your first hookup and there are times you’re going to want to give up. You’re probably going to try out a few different sites, wade through a bunch of people you’re not that into, and have women flake out on you, but it’s ok! Trust me, it happens to all of us at some point.

If you strike out, keep searching. If you strike out again, keep searching. If you strike out ten times, keep searching. This is not a fruitless venture, soldier, so just keep searching and I promise you that you will find someone who is interested in having a hookup with you.

Finding someone for a hookup may take you a bit of time, but it is completely doable. There are many hot women out there that want to have hookups just as badly as men do, so don’t give up hope.

If you follow my tips, act like a decent guy, and keep your tighty-whities from getting in a bunch out of frustration, you’re going to be swimming in women who are not only interested in you but want to spend a lot of free time with you in the bedroom. What happens from there, well that’s on you, my friend!

About Owen Cashner

Owen Cashner considers himself a professional dater and amateur comedian. His passion for writing led him to document his experiences using online dating websites. All opinions expressed on this website are to further educate men on the landscape of dating. Use this information to your advantage and conquer the dating world.